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Integrity

It seems as though a life full of integrity is almost unheard of. Some people lie, cheat, steal, and bully their way through business and through life. Popular television shows today even showcase the lack of integrity that can be found in a business. Sometimes I don't know if the media is applauding lack of integrity or if they are against it.

Frank Levinson of Finisar Cooperation even mentions being fired from a job because someone lacked integrity and blamed him for something he didn't do. I admire Mr. Levinson and his ability to get back up and start something new after being knocked down like that. I don't really know how I would respond to something like that. I don't know if I would have had the courage to start my own company. On the other hand, I may have the courage if the act that got my fired wasn't true like in his case.

Another person I admire for his positive personality and view in life is Gordon B. Hinkley. I was quite young when I saw him on television on the news. I remember being proud of him. Everything he said, he said with love and with a smile. I also love how Sherri Dew was trusted by association. I would love to be known and trusted so well that whomever I associated with would trust who my friends are just because they are my friends.

My husband and I have been trying to help my son see that his first priority should be to become a man of integrity. We have told him many times that it's always easier to tell the truth and to be trusted than it is to remember a lie and not have anyone ever believe anything you say because of how you act. I hope to be a good example to him of someone who has courage and integrity.

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